tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14707786.post7959042281815112100..comments2023-11-02T08:37:18.305-05:00Comments on The Black Fist Blog: The Official Website of The Black Fist Organization: WHEN THE ABUSER BLAMES THE VICTIM: 99 PROBLEMS BUT I'M NOT ONE OF 'EM!General Nikki Xhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13241749944383642695noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14707786.post-39442331188523173672012-02-06T21:34:05.162-05:002012-02-06T21:34:05.162-05:00Hi Sis. Nikki X I am so glad you posted this blog....Hi Sis. Nikki X I am so glad you posted this blog. I am going through something like this right now. I am trying to leave my man because he hits me and he is always denying he did anything at all. I am so sick & tired of his shit I don't know what to do. I have read all of the article in this series and it has helped me alot even reading the sad stories from the other women is giving me the strength to know I am not alone. I don't know what's wrong with this man. He started out so sweet so loving and so nice to me and my children I have 4 & then he just started changing and getting jealous for no reason at all. I do everything for him and he don't work but he still gets up in my face demanding this and demanding that nothing i do is right. He is so insecure thinking some other man is gonna just come in and swoop me up and show me what I am already starting to see for myself that he is not good enough for me anyway and I should have never gotten with him from the start. He hit me the first time cause he was drunk and jealous imagining shit in his head that he made real but wasn't. The second time he claims to this day is all my fault I made him do it cause I am too bossy and demanding. Demanding of what I'm thinking cause he don't work, he don't have no money, he drives my car cause he don't have that and his baby mom won't even let him near her or the baby. Oh and he lives in MY apartment so what the hell am I trying to demand?!? This man is holding on to me because he don't have no one else but he's getting out of my house by the end of this month or I am calling the police that he hates so much. I didn't call the police when he hit me but I will call the man to get him out of my house! Then when I'm free I'm gonna take some time for me then find me a real strong black man to treat me real and has a job! I deserve it! Fuck him! Hitting me 7 times in 2 years is shameful to me Sis. Nikki and I have never told my people about it. He has to go and Feb 28th is his fucking deadline!!!<br /><br />Thanks! I'll let you know what happens.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14707786.post-19946567881547617172012-02-05T15:25:20.863-05:002012-02-05T15:25:20.863-05:00I meant cause our day was BAD not back see i'm...I meant cause our day was BAD not back see i'm so fucking mad behind this ol' nigger of mine i can't even spell right and i got more education than than that nigger!!! sorry Sis. Nikki for posting twiceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14707786.post-38501669911723379802012-02-05T15:23:27.241-05:002012-02-05T15:23:27.241-05:00reading this made me sick cause these men need to ...reading this made me sick cause these men need to wake up and realize they themselves can get they asses smoked trying to fight a black woman! This shit getting too crucial out here trying to keep a roof over our heads food in our bellies and these kids and clothes on our backs to have to worry about a black nigger coming home and whooping our asses cause he drunk or jealousy or he got white man troubles shit fuck that! We do to but you don't see us coming home from work or the welfare building or out pounding the pavement trying to find a job and beating y'alls black ashy asses cause our day was back! Do you? No the hell you don't! I'm mad now shit! my ol' nigger got caught cheating but he the main nigger in my household super jealous and crazed if another nigger so much as says whats up to me! That ol' nigger of mine got life fucked up and he gonna find hisself on the other end of my razor blade he keep up with this bullshit kids or no kids! The nigger can get his ass chopped in a hundred little pieces then shipped back to his mammy in mississippi keep fucking around and fucking up y'all will get the news on the 6 o'clock news for real! These beating womens asses and him beating my ass gone stop asap trust! I done got tired now just like the previous commenter said!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14707786.post-10441684985659587342012-02-04T22:00:35.378-05:002012-02-04T22:00:35.378-05:00Damn! My nigga got most of those characteristics n...Damn! My nigga got most of those characteristics now I can understand him a little better but if the nigga comes near me to jump on me again I"ll kill the son of a bitch I mean that cuz I'm getting tired Shit!!!!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14707786.post-91626741427536386372012-02-04T14:18:53.179-05:002012-02-04T14:18:53.179-05:00This is correct, and these are very good points of...This is correct, and these are very good points of view. I am so proud of you Nikki X, and that the Most High God has been with you. ...For that that fact with me as well.LOL. Bro.JT.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14707786.post-4095797801799520162012-02-04T01:39:56.696-05:002012-02-04T01:39:56.696-05:00Jesus Christ Nikki X!! That was deep !! I can'...Jesus Christ Nikki X!! That was deep !! I can't believe some of the things you have posted during this series but it was soooo needed sistah I listened to that song and started crying thinking about me & my nigga. We broke up 2 months ago and I miss him but he drinks to much I know due to the circumstances you mentioned like employment & drinking & white folks always on his neck all that shit plays a part but when ever I would see him we'd be doing good till the alcohol comes out & the nigga starts drinking then he starts hallucinating about shit he thinks I've done then the ass kickings begin! I loved him best I could but I had to think about my 10 month old daughter! I didn't want her to grow up seeing my ass getting bloodied up but this nigga she calling da-da ya' know? He's not her real daddy but he accepted her when we hooked up & we've been a family every since. He says he still loves me even though I left him but I am kinda torn cause I do still love him I just can't be getting smacked around and beat down by this man. What if he kills me? I'm crying writing this to you Sis. Nikki X but I thank God you are hear to listen and provide a forum for black sistahs where there would not be one. The white girls have them but we don't.<br /><br />God Bless you Sis. Nikki XAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com