STALKING PART III: KNOW THE SIGNS

In the third part of our series on "Stalking", it is best to actually know when you are being stalked.  An ex-lover who won't leave you alone and constantly harasses you is stalking you.

Knowing the signs of when you are being stalked is actually the first step in protecting yourself.  Here are some of the basic actions of an unbalanced unwanted obsessed stalker:

You are being stalked when a person repeatedly watches, follows or harasses you, making you feel afraid or unsafe. A stalker can be someone you know, a past boyfriend or girlfriend or a stranger. While the actual legal definition varies from one state to another, here are some examples of what stalkers may do:



•Show up at your home or place of work unannounced or uninvited.

•Send you unwanted text messages, letters, emails and voicemails.

•Leave unwanted items, gifts or flowers.

•Constantly call you and hang up.

•Use social networking sites and technology to track you.

•Spread rumors about you via the internet or word of mouth.

•Make unwanted phone calls to you.

•Call your employer or professor.

•Wait at places you hang out.

•Damage your home, car or other property.

  ..... And knowing is half the battle!  Protect yourself sisters.  Our series on "Stalking" will continue .....


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ADDENDUM

This Just In:  This email was just sent in from a sister who is being stalked by her ex.  It is a perfect example of the misguided delusions this stalker is suffering from.  This sister broke up with her stalker almost 14 months ago, and has not spoken to him in almost 4 months.  Yet the stalker talks in this email as if they are still together and still communicating.  WTF?!?
If you will notice this sister's stalker claims no one knows his side of the story only the woman's side (isn't that what ALL obsessed stalkers say?), well here is the stalker's fantasy side.  

Please Read Below:


"I um

Just read the Blog of yours, and you need to stop that shit! stealing from a person also stalkers do too.


Stop the denial of True love.

The Love we Had/have is something that we built a solid foundation upon, and is up to the both of us LOVE to make our living better. And um, If I can realize that WE belong together, then by now I know you realize this also.

Yeah, going through the emotions, and what each other will, and will not accept was tough for us, but we made it through.

When you place those stories on the blog, BUT Know one ever gets to read FROM ME directly, people know, and realize how controling you MUST be within OUR relationship, AND Know that the other's View point, and Blackman's Conscienceness, including Rightousness w/Firm ,solid Foundation with social construction of reality MUST be right, and NOT going to permit any woman to Overrun him in the aspects of the relation."