Friday, February 11, 2011

WHAT'S BLACK LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?


EVERYTHANG!!!...

In today's world of "I'ma get mine, you get yours!" What does Black love mean in the big scheme of things? I'm talking about black brotherhood type love. Black sisterhood type love. Black love within the black family. Does Black love even exist? If so, where? How can we proclaim black unity and hate each other so?

And, what about Black love one-on-one between the Black man and the Black woman? Let's have a discussion about black love in the so-called "New Millennium." Are you ready for a candid no-holds barred talk about Black love?
Can Black love survive in this world of lies, jealousy, deceit, mistrust and yes, money problems?

What about the art of the Black man being faithful to the Black woman & vice-versa? Can it be done? Is it even realistic to try? What about Black love in the age of HIV/AIDS, what's up with that?
Why does it appear that condoms are staying on the shelves of drugstores, rather than readily available on the bedside tables in Black bedrooms?

The Black Fist Philosophy on Black Love is and always has been:

- The Black Man Is For The Black Woman.
- The Black Woman Is For The Black Man.
This Makes A Strong Black Family!

What about this thing called, "interracial dating"? What is that... really?

Why are so many black men dating and marrying white women?
Why are so many black women acting like they wanna catch up to the trend?
Meaning, why are black women feeling so much freer to date and marry the white man?
What is the Black woman getting from the white man that the Black man can't/won't/hasn't given her?

Powerful Subject Matter. Legitimate Questions. Now Who In The Hell Has The Answers?
Let's talk about it.

BLACK POWER!

24 comments:

Axinar said...

"Why are so many black men dating and marrying the white women?
Why are so many black women acting like they wanna catch up to the trend?"

Uh ... that would be your "Infinite Diversity In Infinite Combinations".

Besides - is it at least possible that a thorough blend of what we now call African, Asian, and European might not possibly produce some humans with fewer of the bad habits of the original three groups?

Kourtney said...

I think interracial relationships are fine as long as one does not set out to have one. Thinking that dating someone outside of one's race is a cure-all for his/her issues is a silly, rather shallow solution. If you happen to meet someone who is of another race that you are genuinely interested in, then knock yourself out, but don't go to the club (or wherever you 'trol for dates) thinking you're gonna snag some vanilla lovin or whatever flavor you "prefer."

On the other hand, the main issue we face in maintaining successful relationships with one another is ego. How many times has a brotha/sista refused to stroke their partner's ego in fear of "gassing their heads?" That ego stroking is a great show of love and that is one of the things we lack in our relationships today.

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Anonymous said...

I agree with General Nikki X that the black man for the black woman & viceversa I don't believe in interracial dating. Black people need to get their own act tgether and build thei own families and communities up. AND WEAR CONDOMS!

Anonymous said...

What is the Black woman getting from the white man that the Black man can't/won't/hasn't given her?

After being with a black male for many years, I got sick & tired of the sh*t. I bundled my daughter in my arms, picked up our stuff, walked out & never looked back.

I met my very white husband while I was in school, getting my education so I could support my daughter in a proper way.

Now, 15 years later, my real family has a beautiful home, my daughter has a brother, & both of them have a real Daddy.

What has my white husband given me that the former black male couldn't? A family. Solid financial stability. Peace of mind. The man worships the ground I walk on. And I absolutely adore my husband. Our children are high achievers in a truly diverse school in a fully diverse community.

My younger sister followed & married an accomplished white man. On the other hand, our Mother met a Native American businessman, very successful in the construction business out West & damned, if she didn't marry him. After wasting time on loser black males, we've found happiness & contentment.

There's no trend. There are very smart black women making decisions that will benefit them in the long run. Decisions that will provide financial stability today & financial security in their later years. Genuine love. Complete respect. True companionship. They aren't going to achieve such goals sleeping with some jacka$$ who hangs out on the street corner all night with his buds, dealing dope.

I know where my white man is at night, every night. At my dinner table. With our children working on projects & going to activities. Later tonite, that white man will be in bed with me, not some smelly, sleazy, foul-mouthed hoochie with fake hair, fake nails & clothes too small that her fat flesh pooches out all over!

General Nikki X said...

anonymous wednesday august 20, 2008., 8:14 pm:
I read your comments twice. I asked for a no-holds barred discussion. You, and what I take to be your thoughful and honest contribution to this discussion, are appreciated. The topic of this discussion is "What's Black Love Got To Do With It?"
You've allowed us to know exactly "what black love's got to do with it", from your own personal perspective.

Thank You for Reading The Black Fist Blog!

Axinar said...

"What has my white husband given me that the former black male couldn't? A family. Solid financial stability."

Believe you me though ... having grown up in Northside I can guarantee you that there are many, many White men who are every bit as messed up as some Black men ... and then some ...

Don said...

I didn't leave a comment....the comments already here were too entertaining. LOL.

TreyX said...

Wow!Sister Queen General what a powerfully written subject. I agree black men need to be more willing to use condoms not only for his health and protection against diseases but for unwanted pregnacys there are too many black men out here with children they didn't want or just can't take care of. Black love is a beautiful thing when its shared with the right woman.
Hey beautiful Nikki X you never answered my question???

Anonymous said...

Trey X you are that one type that makes us ask these questions. Why you come on here try and pick up General Nikki X with that pathetic attempt at some smooth talk. Do you take General Nikki X as a fool?

Black love is just like any other type of love. You can't control it. The problem isn't that the black man is unfaithful or slangs dope on the corner, you think the white hillbillies are any more faithful or sell any less drugs, or wear condoms more often? Na, thats just not the case. I will say that is the man's job to teach his son how to respect a woman, and that ain't got nothing to do with race.

Anonymous said...

To interracial, you are a snake in the grass, stupid, an ass kisser, less than a black woman( if you are black)and most of all weak ass hell!! I read your opinion on this site and you are wrong about everything you said.

This country was brought up and formed on murder, rape , lies,deceipt and still the same and even worst by white people. White people are the only one on the face of the earth that will look at you right in the eye and lie and think nonthing of it.

white people are the 1st one on earth to ever murder, murder there own family, eat another human, 1st to attain spread and carry dieases and you think they are better, you got to be kidding!!

General Nikki X said...

For the most part your comment is incoherantly dumb.
Neither my faithful readers nor myself have any clue as to what the hell you were attempting to convey.
I'd suggest before you ever try and insult the administrator of this site you'd at least read the blog entry, think about what you've read, process your thoughts and/or opinions then type out your comment s-l-o-w-l-y, re-read the thing then press "publish your comment".
Now that I've taken your seemingly retarded ass through the easy process of commenting.

Try again.

Thank You (I Think) For Reading The Black Fist Blog!

(Oh & NOWHERE within this entry do I endorse "interracial dating")

Try Again ;)

TreyX said...

General Nikki X don't listen to the haters on this site I do respect you and I do wanna get to know you better sister. Answer my question please beautiful woman.

Anonymous said...

General, I think the anonymous poster who was insulting someone wasn't insulting you. They were insulting the "person" who went on about their white man and how all black men do is hang out on the corner and how their sister got a white man too. Just thought you may want to look at it from another perspective.

Brother Love said...

Sister Queen and General Nikki X, I highly commend you for producing this sacred topic. Sacred, because anything that comes from God is "sacred". We came from God and therefore, we-The Black man and Black woman, the essence of Divine Oneness, manifest as two, yet the definitive laws and rules from God, when followed achieves a "divine oneness". Chasing white women and homosexuality is morally and behaviorally light years outside of God's realm, defined laws and rules. Therefore, either of the two, or other perverse acts not mentioned in this topic are behaviors that praises, celebrates or pleases God. These acts and others are outside of God's Code of Behavior for men and women of HIS CREATION. Before God sent HIS SON, HE manifest himself in the first man and woman, which were the crown of HIS CREATION. This in and of itself caused a tsunami in heaven in the rank and file of HIS ANGELS. There was a act of great disobedience by the angel that we now knew as the "devil" or "satan", because he thought that he should be God's crown. But, we all know that God Chooses, whom HE PLEASES and when HE PLEASES. God chose man/woman and HIS CROWNING of us demands and commands us to PLEASE HIM. There is no greater love than loving GOD, but after that, there is no greater love then when we love each other-in the divine capacity that GOD made us in, PERIOD. One reason why we should not chase white women and men is because this is incest, since we are their mothers and fathers. The Black man and woman predates them by millions of years. GOD dwelled inside of us long before there was a "caveman or caveman". We represent the whole and essence of 'man'. The white man and woman, represent, mankind, a by-product or variation of the first man and woman-a different 'kind' of man. Since GOD dwells in us, we must love each other as he would love us, not just sexually, but in HIS FULLEST. It is only when we fail to do this,come what may, that we become host to all of these aberrations that we see in the total venue of the devil, GOD'S enemy and ours, i.e., books, t.v., movies, plays, art, Internet, magazines, Oprah, etc, etc. The foundation of love for us is trust, honor, respect, devotion, praise, celebration, kindness, compassion, protection, inspection, affection, friendship, listening, understanding, faith, caring, sharing, supporting, communication, honesty and the entire universe of other virtues that is commanded by and from God. We must redirect, reshape, re-educate and re-affirm the ways inwhich we love each other in GOD'S EYES. When we look at and see each other in GOD'S EYES there can be only room for each other as 'one' and no one or nothing else.

General Nikki X said...

anonymous May 20, 2009. 2:30pm,
You could be right.

Thank You For Your Comment & Thank You For Reading The Black Fist Blog!

General Nikki X said...

Thank you for your thoughtful and insightful comment Bro. Love.

Thank You for Reading The Black Fist Blog!

General Nikki X said...

Dear Bro. Trey X,
Thank you for your thoughtful comments and what you add to our discussion. And thank you for the compliments... all of them.

Black Power!

Brother Love said...

The great Amira Baraka wrote, "White racism teaches white people to hate Black people and they cannot explain why? White racism teaches Black People to hate each other and they cannot explain why"? Love is the most dominate and superior attribute of God. To hate is the major attribute of the demon and the dark one-the devil. Therefore, when we find black men and women hating each other, demeaning each other, debasing each other, disrespecting each other and hurting each other, then you know that the "devil is in the temple" and not God. For those of us that have had terrible experiences with other Black people, just remember that God is not the author of hate or confusion, it is purely and surely the devil. This is why in the Bible, we are told to daily, "Put on our full and complete armour". We must protect our selves from the mental, spiritual, physical, emotional and verbal contamination of the diseases of the devil. Here is wisdom, "The Black man and the Black woman are created in the oneness of the lord. When a Black man and woman love each other, the angels in heaven sing and dance. But, when they hate and hurt each other, the devil and his disciple clap in hell". We should love each other with all of our hearts, minds and souls. When we don't, we become agents and delivers of hate, pain, misery and personal destruction of each other. Over time this closes the door of the heart and our only hope is being blessed, by God, to send an angel with the "key of love" to open that shut door, once again, then we will know, personally, renewal and resurrection.

Maxine said...

I was under the assumption that love knew no colour. If it does, perhaps then there'e merit in breeding the world brown.

Anonymous said...

WHATS UP NIKKI,YOU WONT BELIEVE I HAD TO WRITE THIS TWICE,.THE SE3COND TIME IS THE SAME IT WASNT NICE,.HOPE YOU DONT MIND A COMMET ARE TWO THOUGH ITS LATE ABOUT WHATS LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT!FIRST NOT A DAMN THANG THE BLACK MAN HAS A NORMAN BATES PERSONALITY TODAY,A PSYCHO OF A SUCH ,BECAUSE HE HAS AND INFERIORITY COMPLEX IMBEDDE3D IN HIM FROM LONG aGO BEING MASSAS BOY AND THE WHITE WOMAN IS SYMBOLIC TO HIS TICKET OUT OF DENIAL HE BELEIVES BUT SHE ACTUALLY FURTHER EMBEDDS HIS SHAME.FOR ONE AINT NOBODY TOLD HIS ASS TO TAKE ON THE TASDK OF SAVING THE DAMN WORLD,THATS MASSAS TRICK Apromise.he had the opportunity to retrieve his soul but settled forT MOSES THE HAM ATIC SO CALLED CURSDE ALONG WITH THE JESUS CYCLES,AND THE alter ego that he is melchizedek a nhigh priest for hitler does not help;what his ass needed was to put the religions down that granted his ass the right to9 be rectalfied and then think he could still be the4 man form the womb of promise,then he calls us eve,as in the evil bitch who mAKES HIM PAY CHILD SUPPORT,BUT ITS HIM WHOM DECEIDED WORLDLY PUSSY WAS BETTER THAN A GLORIFIED BODY.NO BOOTY FOR YOU!NAZI PUSSY,EXCUSE THE LANGUAGE.HIS EGO IS IN HIS PENIS AND ITS COUNTERPRODUCTIVE TO THE PRODUCTION OF THE BLAQCK NATION,SINCE HIS SPERM IS SHOOTING OUT HELL FROM NEW JERUSALEM .ARE YOU FEELING ME,LOVE AINT GOT A DAMN THING TO DO WITH IT,HIS ALTEREGO MUST BE BROKEN ARE HE WONT BE AROUND,HE"LL BE ONE OF THOSE ARTIFACTS DOWN AT UNION TERMINALS SIDESHOWS.CIRCUS OF THE3 FITTEST/I AINT GOT KNOW MERCXY FOR HIS OLD DECREPID BUT SEEING HE LEFT HIS LITYTLE BOY AND BROTHERS HANGING LIKE JOSEPH STRIPPED OF HIS COAT AND SOLD HIM O9UT FOR A GENERation of people not our own,.hell knaw love aint got a damn thing to do with this and we got enough strong sistas to beat his ass back black,if he was worth the similac.peace,and you know its real!

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